This article attempts to deal with caregiver issues. The article itself is useless as it has the typical ‘learn constructive responses to her behavior and how you can cope more effectively with the stress of caregiving’ which may be great advice for someone starting out, but is zero use to people on a hair trigger because they’ve been at it too long.
Why am I linking to it?
The comments section is worth going through as many of the experiences and reports there may mirror your own.There are lots of really hard-working people trying to care for their mentally ill parents, like you. And like you, they find it difficult.